🌿 Sunday Status — 5/17/26

This week has been pretty mellow for me — mostly catching up on chores and settling back into a slower rhythm. I also started a new in‑person class here in my little town, which felt really good. I’ve been craving some face‑to‑face community, and I think this will help scratch that itch.

The goat babies are maturing right along, and before long the boys will be off to their new home. I’m keeping one very handsome buck and the little doeling. The other boys will be donated to our community garden, where they have big regenerative farming plans in the works.

🌸 This Week on YouTube

A 40‑minute strength flow to build endurance, plus the release of the homestead check‑in all about Daisy’s kidding process.

🌙 This Week on Patreon

• Yoga Tier: A to‑be‑decided yoga flow and a continuation of the new outdoor studio space

• Esoteric Tier: A sensual embodiment mini‑tutorial on leg work, and a return to the deep dive into the Suit of Pentacles

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D2PM23Ey5Q4

🌾 Questions for the Week

Have you noticed people becoming more impatient, dismissive, or inconsiderate in everyday interactions?

The short answer is that I think people are the same as they’ve always been. What’s changed is the sheer number of options we have — a kind of “disease of too much.”

No one complained about diets when there wasn’t much food; you simply ate what was available and seasonal. No one rushed through interactions when it had been months since seeing new faces. We valued what we had because new things were rare. Learning used to be precious before it became available at the push of a button. Exercise used to be part of daily work.

The things that were once rare and meaningful are now in excess, and instead of simply doing what’s right for ourselves, we nitpick everything. What theology? What diet? What education? What do I need to be happy? Too many activities, too many social interactions, too many choices.

And once we finally choose something, we want everyone else to get on board as if our solution is the only way.

It’s an interesting conundrum, but at the core, I think people are the same as they’ve always been — craving to be seen, understood, valued, and loved. Now just with a billion more choices at their fingertips.

Find your own way and let the rest wash over you. No need to drown swimming against the waves, and no need to carry the world on your shoulders.

How do you handle the withdrawal phase of quitting a habit, especially when it’s a source of stimulation or escape?

For me, it was important to focus on how I wanted my new life to look — all the things I didn’t get to while I was using. The art, the conversations, the dreams, the exercise, the connections.

If you’re quitting something, you already know how much time it takes up. Start creating new habits right away and pour your energy into the life you’re building. Journal about who this new version of you is — the one you’re becoming — and all the things you want to accomplish. It’s best to do this before you quit, but you can start anytime.

Once you know where you’re headed, put one foot in front of the other and begin becoming that person. In the beginning, it can help to find others who have walked the path — through groups, books, or inspirational YouTube videos. The options for healing are enormous now.

Remember: like attracts like. Birds of a feather flock together. Surround yourself with the people and things that reflect who you want to be, and let go of anything that doesn’t serve the new you.

The better your attitude around the change, the better your chance of success. Notice the positive things and do your best to ignore what’s uncomfortable. Change always feels strange at first, but celebrate the small wins and know it’s just a moment. Soon enough, a new normal will take over, and you’ll find yourself on the other side.

What truth are you slowly realizing, even if you’re not fully ready to say it out loud?

That doing more and burning myself out doesn’t actually get me anywhere.

I’ve slowed down recently. A part of my belief system told me that if I just worked harder and put out more content, I’d be more successful. I’m realizing that belief comes from scarcity — from feeling like I need to prove my worth through effort, and that if I work extra hard, people will value me.

Instead, I’m adopting a more feminine output with my work. Not overdoing anything. Focusing on less so I don’t burn out. Allowing myself to feel inspired instead of pressured. And turning it over to my higher power.

If I’m meant to be successful, I will be. And if I only help one person, that’s enough.

Because at its core, I already have a dream life. I have everything I need. The doors are open, and I’m willing to receive what life has to offer — but I’m not chasing anything anymore. I am already abundant, and with that mindset, like increases like.